You Are Allowed to Desire Sex
You are allowed to desire sex
You are allowed to desire pleasure
Even if you came from a religious background
Even if you hold shame around your sexuality
Even if you may be unsure of what brings you pleasure
Even if you think the things that turn you on are “fucked up”
Even if you’ve never given yourself an orgasm through masturbation
Even if you’re unlearning guilt
Even if you were told it was wrong and dirty
You are allowed to desire sex
You deserve good, fulfilling sex
Because it is fun
Because it feels good (if it doesn’t, there’s probably a reason - it’s a lie that sex “just hurts”)
Because you’re bored
Because you find your partner hot
Because you need dopamine
Because you’re depressed
Because you’re anxious
Because you want to feel human touch
Because you want to feel connection
Because you want an orgasm
Because you want to feel sexy
Because you want to feel desired
Because you want to relax
Because you need release
Because you want a good nights sleep
Just because.
Human sexuality is innate.
Sexual pleasure is ours to enjoy.
It has been robbed from many religious and queer folks.
You are allowed to reclaim your sexuality.